This is a thread I can completely relate to.
In fact one of the reasons I have so much more problems parting with stuff now is because of a few past experiences.
Things I have owned in the past but sold or traded included an almost complete Spelljammer product line, my FASA Battletech / Mechwarrior collection from the late 80's and early 90's, The MERP box set and handful of accessories, Kara Tur box set and my spare first edition Forgotten Realms. There were other odds and ends but just between the Spelljammer stuff and the FASA stuff alone was a massive amount of books. I regret losing some of this stuff too.
I have since re-acquired the Spelljammer box set, the Lost Ships accessory, and at some point I'll get back the Spacefarer's Handbook. I can do away with the rest of the material. I love my MERP box set back but I'll settle with RMX and the various additions I've gotten to go along with it. The Battletech stuff -- would love to but I'm not going there because I know me. Kara Tur would be nice but I'm not going to hunt for a copy.
Like some of you, I tend to set goals and complete what I view as 'sets' or 'groupings' of products. Ironically, I was never big into 3.5 and only switched up from 3.0 when I became involved as a player in a regular campaign. I sold my 3.0 books and got a great deal on a new set off Amazon. The 'swap' might have cost me about $15 out of pocket. When I introduced a DM to C&C, he begged me to help him track down a copy of the PHB and M&T as well as the Yggsburgh hardback. I did, and he gave me (traded) Monster Manual II, III, the Fiend Folio, and a Forgotten Realms critter book (softcover) for 3rd ed in exchange. I got the better of the deal but I wound up with more. I already had more than half of the original class books for 3.0 (like Sword & Fist) and the Tome of Vile Darkness so I wound up getting the rest of the splat books and the Book of Exalted Deeds to complement what I had. Finally, I got Unearthed Arcana for 3rd because I really liked it and the Deities and Demigods because I always liked to own this sort of book. Add to that the Compendium of Magic Items... and then Spells... and then the Rules Compendium just because:
A) I'm a completest and set goals to get these things.
B) C&C was so versatile, it enabled me to mine so much material from third edition anyway.
The one thing I have to add is that in every case, I got all these things at very low prices through trade, second hand, and discount markets.
In terms of other d20 material, I really liked TLG's offerings and since they were phasing all this stuff out, I took advantage of this and tracked down a couple things I was missing from the GFW series.
Necromancer Games... I don't have all of their offering but I do have a lot of various things and it started with key books like the Tome of Horrors and Gygax's Necropolis (for d20), to the ones the TLG help produce like the Lost City of Barakus, to a couple of box sets.
Goodman Games... at least half of the DCCs I currently own from the 3.x line were discounted and only gotten in the past few months -- and I'm talking pretty heavy discounts here.
Fantasy Flight... started a few years ago when they began to clear out the Legends & Lairs series. I got a whole bunch of that series which is great d20 material which can be adapted to whatever at an average price of $5 each. The ones I didn't get were the 4 class related books and I stayed away from the adventures and setting stuff...
Years before the d20 thing, WEG was on their way out. I had already managed to score a bunch of Star Wars d6 books on the strength of trade for a handful of magic cards. Admittedly some of those were worth a noticeable amount then and a retarded amount now. Oh well. However, I quickly got to love the system and decided to 'round off' the collection by setting various goals. I've played the game a couple of times in the past 10 years.
Where does all this leave me?
Well, I have A HECK OF A LOT of stuff, I look though occasionally. I know that if I parted with some of this stuff, I will end up regretting some of it so my 'grip' tightens that much more! I thought of pairing a few things down and keep with more central groupings of the collection.
Let's just say I'm still taking stock of things and figuring a few things out while I'm still bringing more stuff in.
Lot's of food for thought.
M
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